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let’s make adult friendships easier (even for introverts) 👯‍♀️ healing diaries ep.4
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in the world of modern loneliness, we all seem desperate for friends...but how come adult friendships are so hard?
turns out, adult friendships take a lot of work. in this video, I go on speed friendship dates with former co-workers, childhood friends, and strangers on the internet, to figure out how to make friends, and build meaningful friendships as an adult. what I learned: adult friendships are hard, but they don't have to be 🌷
i hope you find something relatable in this vlog...thank you for being my internet friends💫
xx,
Evelyn
🔖 CHAPTERS
00:00 intro
00:44 we all need friends, even if we think we don't
04:24 where to find friends as an adult
07:36 even introverts can make friends
10:25 "they don't have time for me" is a limiting belief
12:40 building deep friendships
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Hi, I’m Evelyn✨
➭ how old are you? 29 (born in 1994)
➭ where do you live? China (for now), moving to Berlin🇩🇪
➭ what's your MBTI? INFP
➭ what was your job before you quit? consultant/program manager
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on this channel I share my life as a recent corporate drop out, going on a journey of growth and self-discovery to (hopefully) figure out what I want to do, and where I want to be. Grateful to have you here:)
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learning to be w/ myself (in beijing) 💌 healing diaries ep.3
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🌷the first 500 people to use my link will get a 1 month free trial of Skillshare skl.sh/tapiocapress05241 insta: tapioca.press subscribe: ua-cam.com/users/tapiocapress buy me a coffee: ko-fi.com/tapiocapress after living with my parents for a while, life started feeling stagnant, so I booked a one way ticket to Beijing. in this vlog, I explore new hobbies in the comfort of my fav...
adulting Q&A🧋figuring it out in 20s, Berlin plans, working in tech again?
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insta: tapioca.press subscribe: ua-cam.com/users/tapiocapress buy me a coffee: ko-fi.com/tapiocapress as I enter the last days of my 20s, I find myself still figuring a lot of stuff out: adulting, relationship, friendships, belonging... in this video, I drink 5 bubble teas in the hutongs of beijing, while chatting with you about my thoughts lately: what does it mean to be an adul...
living w/ my parents at 29...❤️‍🩹 healing diaries ep.2
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💌 learn language anytime, anywhere with Lingoda and save 20% with code EVELYN try.lingoda.com/TapiocaPress insta: tapioca.press subscribe: ua-cam.com/users/tapiocapress buy me a coffee: ko-fi.com/tapiocapress having grown up with a lot of judgment and expectations from my Chinese parents, I had mixed feelings about moving back in with them at 29 years old, after quitting my job, ...
moving back in w/ my parents at 29 📦 healing diaries ep.1
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insta: tapioca.press subscribe: ua-cam.com/users/tapiocapress buy me a coffee: ko-fi.com/tapiocapress in this vlog, I document my journey packing up my life and moving 1700 miles back to my hometown, to live with my parents at 29 years old. moving back in with parents may seem like a step back, especially as we get older. but sometimes, we need to stop trying to keep up with soci...
an overly realistic, aesthetic-ish apartment tour ($220/mo in china)
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insta: tapioca.press subscribe: ua-cam.com/users/tapiocapress buy me a coffee: ko-fi.com/tapiocapress welcome to my $220 apartment in china✨in this *very realistic*, unfiltered apartment tour of my tiny two bedroom in guangzhou, china, I share way too many details of my personal life, show you what it's like to walk through an underwear street on my way home (it'll make sense at ...
how to edit *aEsTHetic* vlogs (FULL workflow + tips to save time) beginner friendly
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✨The first 500 people to use my link will get a 1 month free trial of Skillshare - skl.sh/tapiocapress03241 In this video, I’m *finally* spilling all my secrets about how I edit aesthetic vlogs, from filming equipment, to my complete editing workflow including rough cut, adding music, color correction, to my most used ~aesthetic~ fonts, effects, transitions. I share editing techniques to make y...
a few days in seoul✨mija seoul, cute neighborhoods, cafes & bookshops
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i went to seoul for a bit of soul searching in the coldest days of winter, and realized it was my first time traveling to a new country alone, where I don't speak the language... it was wild, and socially awkward at times, getting to meet one of my favorite vloggers, go to mija seoul days before it was closed, get lost between the neighborhoods and cafes of seoul, and be really confused by a mi...
how youtube changed my life as a 29 yo corporate dropout (& it can change yours too)
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how youtube changed my life as a 29 yo corporate dropout (& it can change yours too)
beijing vlog | days in my life in beijing (& feeling like a tourist at home...)
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beijing vlog | days in my life in beijing (& feeling like a tourist at home...)
life after quitting my 9-5 in tech | feeling like I’m not enough…
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life after quitting my 9-5 in tech | feeling like I’m not enough…
a day in hong kong✨exploring artsy neighborhoods, cute shops + local cafes, sunset by the sea
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a day in hong kong✨exploring artsy neighborhoods, cute shops local cafes, sunset by the sea
swapping screen time for reading 📚 how to read more when you don't have time to read
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swapping screen time for reading 📚 how to read more when you don't have time to read
a day in my life not working 9-5 in tech👩‍💻
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a day in my life not working 9-5 in tech👩‍💻
speaking ONLY CHINESE w/ my boyfriend for 24 hours ✨ a day in our lives in China (eng sub)
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speaking ONLY CHINESE w/ my boyfriend for 24 hours ✨ a day in our lives in China (eng sub)
getting my life together🍂fall reset, apartment updates, setting goals
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getting my life together🍂fall reset, apartment updates, setting goals
life in China | reconnecting w/ family, exploring my hometown as an adult, bookshop & cafe hopping
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life in China | reconnecting w/ family, exploring my hometown as an adult, bookshop & cafe hopping
productive week in my life after quitting my job
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productive week in my life after quitting my job
what i spend in a week after quitting my job as a 29 yo💸tips for living on savings
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what i spend in a week after quitting my job as a 29 yo💸tips for living on savings
get to know me Q&A 💌 how i decided to quit corporate, YouTube full time, living in China...
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get to know me Q&A 💌 how i decided to quit corporate, UA-cam full time, living in China...
24 hours in shanghai | traveling alone, walking around the old city, good coffee + books
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24 hours in shanghai | traveling alone, walking around the old city, good coffee books
a day in my life without a job | quitting corporate, how much I saved, dealing w/ self doubt
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a day in my life without a job | quitting corporate, how much I saved, dealing w/ self doubt
life in china✨settling into a new city, apartment hunting, exploring guangzhou
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life in china✨settling into a new city, apartment hunting, exploring guangzhou
apartment tour 🏠 what $1300 gets you in Beijing, China
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apartment tour 🏠 what $1300 gets you in Beijing, China
why I left Beijing + where I'm moving next 🌏 pros & cons of living in Beijing
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why I left Beijing where I'm moving next 🌏 pros & cons of living in Beijing
how i lost my apartment in beijing | beijing diaries
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how i lost my apartment in beijing | beijing diaries
how I built my side hustle | Quitting My Job Diaries
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how I built my side hustle | Quitting My Job Diaries
learning to live alone...| beijing diaries
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learning to live alone...| beijing diaries
she loves books and he loves breakfast rolls…a Dublin Vlog
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she loves books and he loves breakfast rolls…a Dublin Vlog
we escaped to Hong Kong... | VLOG
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we escaped to Hong Kong... | VLOG

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @crazypieman9
    @crazypieman9 2 години тому

    well how do you feel about yourself and what do you want?

  • @sedneycastler4086
    @sedneycastler4086 13 годин тому

    Should I move back with my parents? I'm living in hostel and I have no job please help me ........🙏🙏🙏I'm a college dropped out trying to be android developer as i mentioned I'm living in hostel but everythings getting too expensive and I don't have job and I don't like asking my dad for money. The thing is i asking for help that i don't know what to do because my family is so toxic living with them is so mental exhaustion for me. it's not like I hate them but their behaviour their actions their words,etc so painful.

  • @bichhang.cubathanhlich
    @bichhang.cubathanhlich 18 годин тому

    Thank you so much Evelyn! What macbook are you using?

  • @Gingerlaivlog
    @Gingerlaivlog 23 години тому

    Thanks so much for this info! I'm a beginner, and this is a good help for me :) I appreciate it ^^

  • @evelic
    @evelic День тому

    Why are asian cultures so fucking ineffective at work, their work culture is just silly sometimes and so unproductive. God damn it, that's the ONLY thing I dont like about China. Isn't China supposed to be the next superpower, an evolved nation of unprecedented advancement? their work culture is just as bad as any other asian country and the worst of corporate america. I hope you can always live a better life, as well as everyone. Thank you for your video.

  • @Ocean.L
    @Ocean.L День тому

    姐姐又回德国了吗

  • @cvk2761
    @cvk2761 День тому

    Hej, I will be staying a couple days in Beijing which area would you recommend to just have a calm stay and visit restaurant and cafes like you show?:) greetings from Copenhagen

  • @Cheesecake32437
    @Cheesecake32437 2 дні тому

    Girl, subscribed!!! ❤

  • @nisagurleyik
    @nisagurleyik 2 дні тому

    Thank you so much for this video ❤😊 really helpfull

  • @nisagurleyik
    @nisagurleyik 2 дні тому

    Can you share your first 2 tripod name pleasee ❤

  • @savthebat
    @savthebat 2 дні тому

    I really relate to the self compassion part i have always been my own worst critic and it is so hard to train your brain to think any differently. I also always find something wrong with me. i’ve been working in therapy about this and how to kind to myself but also accept that that part of me isn’t a bad part of me it just has become too big and it doesn’t leave room for the part of me that is excited to learn something new or proud of me for trying. it is good to be able to give yourself constructive criticism but when it just becomes criticism it isnt healthy.

  • @tech1779
    @tech1779 2 дні тому

    nice video

  • @Vladshirokov
    @Vladshirokov 2 дні тому

    Это хороший контент

  • @stanleyferdinand5979
    @stanleyferdinand5979 2 дні тому

    Waiting on the just turned 30 video.

  • @justBEingjada
    @justBEingjada 3 дні тому

    So hard to watch you to much fast talking and you look like the female version of saw I kept getting sucked into your face and I was truly scared

  • @E.S.83
    @E.S.83 3 дні тому

    These old streets do make people feel more comfortable..especially in the city center, a lot of historical figures lived in these areas in the past times, very good vibe. There are more and more young people like visit these streets and do city work due to the rising of boutique stores or fashion clothes and coffee shops, in the past decade...

  • @EwenBell
    @EwenBell 3 дні тому

    Thanks for sharing so openly and genuinely. I love your talk about loneliness and being a misfit. Beautiful thoughts. Off-script is hard yes, but we do get better with practice too. If you ever come to Melbourne come visit us, will buy you a coffee and a pastry :)

  • @sofiamancia608
    @sofiamancia608 3 дні тому

    I loved your video. Jesus bless you a lot.

  • @samuelhannguyen
    @samuelhannguyen 4 дні тому

    very inspiring ty

  • @aininatika
    @aininatika 4 дні тому

    I just resigned from my job. I'm currently starting my life by making my UA-cam channel. UA-cam has made me change a lot and learn new things. I hope someday I can be like you. Thanks for sharing ❤

  • @menutokitchen
    @menutokitchen 5 днів тому

    Im thankful i have a close circle of friends and cousin who will show up. We are all busy with our lives but coincidentally those who are adapting to sabbatical or taking a break off work are the ones who will rally together.

  • @wolfgar45
    @wolfgar45 5 днів тому

    From my experience, misfits if they meet each other still feel like misfits, calling another a misfit.

  • @fnshirokov
    @fnshirokov 6 днів тому

    я тут уже

  • @DC-zc5fq
    @DC-zc5fq 6 днів тому

    Good luck on your new journey abroad. Is Dave moving to Germany with you?

  • @olinafan4459
    @olinafan4459 7 днів тому

    hi can i be your friend? thanks

  • @annasyfable
    @annasyfable 7 днів тому

    I would feel really bad looking at other upcoming content creator’s and seeing their videos doing leagues better than mine, while genuinely thinking mine was better. I’m so glad to hear somebody else say this out loud because as bad as it sounds, it’s such a real feeling . And as a fellow corporate drop out with no back up plan, the desperation I was feeling for YouTbe was real. Telling myself that each new video would be the one to blow up, just for it to flop, was really getting to me. And it was really frustrating to fill the algorithm just didn’t like me.

  • @summerbirds1549
    @summerbirds1549 7 днів тому

    I lived with my parent when I was 29, so it’s ok.

  • @summerbirds1549
    @summerbirds1549 7 днів тому

    Thank you for this video. I’ve just decided to try make a UA-cam channel, I have ADHD and I struggle with a lot of things, but I want to start making something creative and share my life experience. Your genuine video actually made me feel so much better.

  • @Vladshirokov
    @Vladshirokov 8 днів тому

    Мне тоже 29 лет

  • @Kasai_ID
    @Kasai_ID 9 днів тому

    what mic u use sis?

  • @rs-vq4fi
    @rs-vq4fi 9 днів тому

    I live in Berlin and also being an introvert but I would say Berlin welcomes everyone and you would definitely love here.

  • @LiXuliang-yc6hw
    @LiXuliang-yc6hw 9 днів тому

    how you can do it?Which way to enter Amazon?

  • @victorkatsumoto558
    @victorkatsumoto558 10 днів тому

    Everything sounds so delicious! I would specially try the red bean snow!

  • @artistlovepeace
    @artistlovepeace 10 днів тому

    Good job.

  • @artistlovepeace
    @artistlovepeace 10 днів тому

    tapiocapress, I will be your friend. I know this is a commercial. You can contact me anytime. I'm in MN, USA. I'm 49 years old and the UA-cam algoritm shared your video with me.

  • @aSummerGreatly
    @aSummerGreatly 10 днів тому

    Great video, Evelyn. Thank you!

  • @mayaluiolainen3729
    @mayaluiolainen3729 10 днів тому

    Hm, adult at 30)) Now it is more like teen years. Try friendship after 40)

  • @sanguinespunk
    @sanguinespunk 10 днів тому

    came here from your other video about editing advice and I love LOVE the way you talk about your love for making videos and how being a small youtuber has its own advantages. I just started out and i know nothing but this whole experience is thrilling to say less. hope you're having a good day. thank you for being.

  • @cicirise
    @cicirise 10 днів тому

    I have also spent a long time in Guangzhou and now visit occasionally. Your videos are very authentic, and I like the natural emotions you express in them. Also as an INFP, this is very attractive to me. hope you have a happy trip.

  • @norang7918
    @norang7918 11 днів тому

    thanks

  • @tylernelson6302
    @tylernelson6302 11 днів тому

    How did you post in china with all the media restrictions?

  • @okihome
    @okihome 11 днів тому

    Pandan comes from a plant that is easily locally found in Malaysia. We have a shop selling pandan pancakes and it’s fabulous 🎉 There’s a lot of other pandan delicacies that you can make with it. Pandan chiffon cake is the bomb !!!

  • @IndigoBooksThoughts
    @IndigoBooksThoughts 12 днів тому

    Ahaaa! This video found me at the right time. Thank you for making it! I just started my channel even if I felt scared & not ready. It feels good to take action though and just start 😊

  • @JayXJourney
    @JayXJourney 12 днів тому

    Hi, I have no idea how the algorithm brought your channel to me but seriously, I just wrote my intro for the channel that I've been wanting to make for over 10 years. I decided to start today and your video was on my homepage...scary, but amazing! Thank you for this, I subscribed to you and I look forward to listening to your journey as I take mine.

  • @rebootjac
    @rebootjac 12 днів тому

    Really like the search light comparison you made for each new video finding a similar wavelength of people. That's what I think it is about as well and what social networking is good for.

  • @MalTiger
    @MalTiger 12 днів тому

    Thank you for this lovely video! Would you mind sharing what mic you use for your content? It sounds great!

  • @lucyfromsiberia
    @lucyfromsiberia 12 днів тому

    I get like that, too. Sometimes I don't talk to anyone but my little son for a week. I'm married with a son. But I don't have any friends. And my husband is very quiet. So I have a catastrophic lack of socialising. I've never met anyone like me in my whole life. For example, I would like to see a person with the same hobbies: reading, going to the theatre, gardening, painting, needlework, walking. But I have never met such a person. And to find a person with the same character and the same soul is not realistic.

  • @phil_ofthe_phuture
    @phil_ofthe_phuture 12 днів тому

    This video essentially having that "don't do it for numbers, do it because you enjoy it" type beat is exactly what I needed to hear during my morning coffee Been thinking about making my own channel a lot this week and your advice was so inspirational, thank you so much!!

  • @okihome
    @okihome 12 днів тому

    How can I get rid of that voice in my head? I always feel so guilty for wasting time 😭

  • @athenasn
    @athenasn 12 днів тому

    i wanna kiss u on the forehead for this, this was like therapy